Make oral sex better

Oral sex is one of the most intimate things you can do with a partner, not to mention, it also feels really effing good for whoever is receiving it. Seeing your partner in the throes of passion can also be a huge ego boosting turn-on for the giver as well, which kinda makes oral sex a win-win. If you wanna make sure your oral game is the best it can be when it comes to not only giving but also receiving, read on. Just like everything else with sex, getting crafty and mixing it up with a new trick or two is pretty low-risk, high-reward. Morgan also recommends blindfolding your partner obvi with their permission , as it heightens the senses and makes erogenous zones even more sensitive.

Stuff we feel neutral about: Chicken pot pie. But one thing you shouldn't have a take-it-or-leave-it attitude towards is tongue action. Oral is the form of sex that the majority of women say is most likely to give them an orgasm, says sex therapist Ian Kerner, PhD, author of She Comes First. Put these tips. Oral often gets bundled along with kissing and stroking as a form of foreplay, but because it's so intense, you actually need to warm up before he heads south of your border. Since men tend to get aroused faster than women, his instinct will probably be to start pleasuring you within 90 seconds of hitting the sheets, but stave him off by extending the time you spend touching, licking, nibbling, and talking dirty to each other. When he does go down on you, instead of diving right in, encourage him to tantalize your entire V-zone first.

First step: Stop thinking of it as a job. Done correctly, oral sex can be satisfying for both of you — so long as you follow this sage advice. Everybody wins!

Skip navigation! Story from Sex. The only thing more satisfying than being on the receiving end of great oral sex is knowing that you did a great job performing it on your partner. To give is to receive, if you will. Every sexual partner has different taste — literally and figuratively — and when you figure out exactly what your partner likes, it can be intensely gratifying.